The holiday season is quickly approaching and it is very easy to become overwhelmed by everything that is expected—shopping lists, gift exchanges, holiday parties, family get-togethers, and more. To fully appreciate and enjoy this time of year, it is essential to understand what is actually necessary, and what could be changed to make the most of your holidays. Here are a few tips:
- If plans become overwhelming, consider downsizing. The US has made an industry off of holiday celebrations. A grand feast for everyone you can invite is not necessary. If you find yourself being overwhelmed with all the planning and preparations, consider something smaller. Instead of inviting everyone you can find, make it a small family occasion. You don’t even have to make a turkey or a ham!
- Don’t overspend. We have become notorious for overspending during the holidays. We have aligned debt with our holiday seasons and this is not necessary. Costs over Thanksgiving tend to add up more slowly than Christmas but they still happen. Food costs, travel expenses, and shopping expenses (Black Friday sales and Christmas gifts) can all add up to an exorbitant and unnecessary amount. Make a financial plan and stick to it.
- Consider a new tradition. Instead of buying presents for everyone in your family, consider drawing names. Each person buys one present. This helps cut costs and eliminates the headache of finding the perfect present for multiple people. This also allows you to truly focus on one person and finding the gift that he or she will really appreciate.
- Volunteer your time. If you are blessed with some additional time off this holiday season, consider volunteering it with organizations within your community. If you are worried about losing time with your family, make it a family affair. Food banks and soup kitchens always need more hands this time of year and your time is appreciated. Volunteering will also freshen your perspective on the true meaning of the holidays.
- Focus on giving. If you don’t think you will have the time to volunteer your time, consider giving or donating to a local organization. These gifts don’t have to be extravagant: a pair of socks, a warm sweater, and a small bag of basic necessities go a long way for those without.
These are just a few ways to make the most of your holiday season. Consider some new traditions to add to your holiday routine that allow for a fresh perspective on the season. I would love to hear about your current family traditions for the holidays. Leave a comment and let me know a few!
