Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about relationships. Maybe it’s because of my recent focus on mentoring—which is all about relationship. Or maybe it’s just the normal musings of an older man who is in a season of more reflection.
Whatever the reason, this has been on my mind, especially one thought I’d like to share with you: Do not undervalue the relationships in your life.
Looking back over my life and career and all that I have done and accomplished, it strikes me that other than some money in the bank, the only things that have really endured are my relationships with others. Treasured friendships are the #1 thing I have to show for all that I’ve done in my life — and that, my friends, is absolutely, categorically the best thing I could possibly possess!
I say that now, but I’ve not always realized the truth in that statement. I well remember my busy, task-filled days in the C-suite where often I worried more about “getting things done” than investing in my family, friends, and colleagues.
Thankfully, despite my failings in this area, I still have managed to nurture dozens of treasured relationships that have endured over the years. And now more than ever I am doing my best to invest in those relationships and give of myself to those I know. There’s nothing else quite as fulfilling.
Just this week I received an incredible note from a former colleague with whom I worked over 25 years ago. Her simple but sincere message was one of gratitude and praise for my leadership all those years ago, and it simply blew me away. Now that is what it’s all about ladies and gentlemen! So value relationships, because in the end, they’re the #1 thing that matters!
